Here is a common saying – “I can achieve goals for life if I work
hard enough.” Do you agree or disagree? Actually, it’s a trick question.
Because although it’s true that we are in charge of our destiny and
results, it’s equally true that we will only go as far as our feelings,
mindset and habits allow.
These set of feelings, beliefs and habits dictate how we “do” goals.
And if our feelings, beliefs and habits are designed to produce mediocre or poor results, then it really doesn't matter how hard we work.
There is a secret psychology
to goals. We can begin the process of changing our feelings, beliefs
and habits so that we can finally reach our goals. Our feelings, beliefs
and habits are almost like a blueprint for our goals.
It’s just like an apartment’s blueprint told a building contractor
exactly how to go about creating the apartment, our feelings, beliefs
and habits spells out exactly how we “do” goals.
If these aren't designed for achieving success, we will miss
opportunities, sabotage ourselves and watch our work slip away despite
our best efforts.
Why can self-made millionaires lose everything and then bounce back
as strong as ever? It is because of “The Secret”. What is “The Secret”?
It is the law of attraction.
This is a natural law that governs the whole order of the universe and
of our personal lives through the process of “like attracts like.” For
example, if we wake up in the morning and think angry thoughts and feel
angry, we will attract back events and circumstances that cause us to
feel more anger. Equally, if we think and feel positively in the
morning, we will attract back positive happenings and situations.
Of course we all have bad days, but the point here is to form the
habit of thinking positively. Everyone is entitled to off days here and
there.
Our health, wealth, and happiness can be attracted purely by changing
our thoughts and feelings. Our thoughts are like a magnet, whereby they
attract thoughts of comparable frequency. What if we could differ from
the majority of people in the world today and master the law of attraction and see results from our goals? Well we can.
There is a book called “The Secret” by Rhonda Byrne. The thing I like about “The Secret” book is that it comprises insight from current day teachers who have used it to achieve health, wealth, and happiness.
They tell their gripping stories of obtaining immense wealth,
overcoming problems, and achieving what many would call the impossible.
They don’t see things as impossible because the very word says “I’m
possible”. That’s how they look at life and how many others who have
read it look at this word in a new light.
If we want to improve our goals and achieve our potential, we must
change our blueprint. If we don’t, then we will keep creating the same
results. That’s a given. “The Secret” is a great place to start changing our blueprint!
Author : By Gary Daly
